Help me chopse colours plzz guppans :D

Ok guys I know there's probably been 100's of threads where "brides to be" are asking for advice on colours, well this time its me :D

My wedding is in the first week of April next year Inshallah and im only going to have around 1 month prior to the wedding to do all my shopping place orders etc as im going to Pak in March. Which means i need to have a pretty good idea of what I want etc...

I have pretty much decided on my baraat day clothes the style and colours red and black (took a lot of convincing mum with the black) but I was actually inspired from a dress i found in the bridal pics section.

Ok now to the point... As im wearing quite dark/sharp colours on the 1st day by contrast i want to go for more neutral colours for the walima/2nd day. So plzzz could u lovely guppans give me some good ideas/combinations and even pics if u have any...

I was thinking on the lines of.... Greys, Peach, Beige, Lilac? But open to suggestions... what's a nice colour combo for the walima??

I'm not quite sure what im wanting made probably NOT a lengha, more like the long maxi gown style dresses that are in fashion these days...

p.s sorry for the long post!!