Wondering what the "norm" is for shaadi photography payment. Who pays?
I was under the impression that larki walay paid for mehndi shaadi photography/video but my photographer said that that's not the case and I should split it...my parents agreed. So we're doing that.
We don't have the same photographer for the walima because it's going to be out of state and boy's side is getting someone...is that split with us too? In Pakistan (back in the old days when parents got married), apparently, the boy's side paid for walima photography on their own...my in laws are under the impression we split all of it.
For the record (just fyi, don't know if this matters), our side is paying for the mehndi and shaadi solely. Their side for the walima.
I was under the impression that larki walay paid for mehndi shaadi photography/video but my photographer said that that's not the case and I should split it...my parents agreed. So we're doing that.
We don't have the same photographer for the walima because it's going to be out of state and boy's side is getting someone...is that split with us too? In Pakistan (back in the old days when parents got married), apparently, the boy's side paid for walima photography on their own...my in laws are under the impression we split all of it.
For the record (just fyi, don't know if this matters), our side is paying for the mehndi and shaadi solely. Their side for the walima.