There is a girl (let's call her M) who I knew since jr high when we all went to the masjid together and hung out. I always found her flaky and kanjoos but we saw each other all the time because my best friend was close friends with her.
She's not invited to the wedding. I'm sure she's heard about my upcoming shaadi from mutual friends ( 2 of our close friends are my bridesmaids) and her cousin is attending. I have numerous reasons for not inviting her 1) we rarely talk (the last time was 6 months ago when she texted to congratulate me on my engagement...but the time before that was a year ago or something) 2) she's super flaky and cheap and her behavior irritates me 3) The BIGGEST reason - we have A LOT of drama with an uncle of mine and M's parents are now suddenly really close friends with my uncle/aunt. Our moms see each other on occasion and M's mom ignores mine , etc. My parents were pretty adamant that she's not invited.
Well, that's all fine and dandy but she just called yesterday and left a longggg message about how she misses me (very random considering we don't talk). She tried adding my fiance on fb randomly 2 mins after we announced our engagement (not exaggerating and she doesn't know him at all). I also found out her mom and sister are going around asking everyone how in the world I found this random doctor and that there's noooo way this marriage is arranged (it isn't....but none of their business).
I'm having anxiety (I know I know) and have been avoiding her in general since I found out she wasn't gonna be invited. Has something similar happened to anyone else? I know I'm going to get a really long sad message sooner or later and I really don't know what to do.
She's not invited to the wedding. I'm sure she's heard about my upcoming shaadi from mutual friends ( 2 of our close friends are my bridesmaids) and her cousin is attending. I have numerous reasons for not inviting her 1) we rarely talk (the last time was 6 months ago when she texted to congratulate me on my engagement...but the time before that was a year ago or something) 2) she's super flaky and cheap and her behavior irritates me 3) The BIGGEST reason - we have A LOT of drama with an uncle of mine and M's parents are now suddenly really close friends with my uncle/aunt. Our moms see each other on occasion and M's mom ignores mine , etc. My parents were pretty adamant that she's not invited.
Well, that's all fine and dandy but she just called yesterday and left a longggg message about how she misses me (very random considering we don't talk). She tried adding my fiance on fb randomly 2 mins after we announced our engagement (not exaggerating and she doesn't know him at all). I also found out her mom and sister are going around asking everyone how in the world I found this random doctor and that there's noooo way this marriage is arranged (it isn't....but none of their business).
I'm having anxiety (I know I know) and have been avoiding her in general since I found out she wasn't gonna be invited. Has something similar happened to anyone else? I know I'm going to get a really long sad message sooner or later and I really don't know what to do.