Need help

Hi there
I am going to Pak in March InshaAllah for sister in laws wedding, I have been looking everywhere for outfits but can't find any. I have put abit weight on had a baby 6 months ago MA so something that will look good on someone not so slim 😊 I am wondering if people can give me ideas on outfits for mehndi barat and waleema. I also have a 2 year old girl so would like her to be slightly matching.

Thanks in advance xx