Need suggestions/ideas please!

What type of bridal dress would you recommend for a women in her early 40's who is getting married for the second time, after being divorced for nearly 20 years? Both bride and groom are of Pakistani origin, but the bride is not traditional in any way (will not be comfortable handling a heavy draped dupatta).

The only pics I can visualize are of Maria B's dress from her own wedding.

Please give some suggestions for color combinations as well.

Thanks!